Coaching is a competitive advantage.
You can change how you think. That changes what you are capable of.
Internal alignment influences external results.
Insight is the easy part.
I spent the first part of my career in sales, sales leadership, and recruiting. What I saw over and over, in other people and in myself, was the same thing. We knew what we wanted. We knew what was in the way. We fell short of the change anyway.
Maybe you have read the books and listened to the podcasts. Maybe you can name the pattern, describe where it came from, and explain why you do it.
And you still do it.
Knowing something and changing it are two different challenges. A lot of what's promoted in the personal development space is very good at the first one. My work is aimed at the second.
How I work
Some people focus on asking hard questions. I believe it is about asking the right question at the right time.
Insight on its own leaves you feeling better and changes nothing. I am interested in what changes.
We work on what is underneath the pattern first, and then on what you build in its place. Clarity on what you want. Values you can act from. Strategies that fit how your mind operates.
About Ray

After more than a decade of recruiting, training, and developing people, I started My Coach Ray in 2016 and went looking for tools that made the change hold.
My work draws on Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Mental and Emotional Release®, and Hypnosis, and I am certified by the Association for Integrative Psychology as a trainer of all three.
There are a few ways to work together
- Breakthrough Session
- Private Coaching
- Group Coaching
- The My Coach Ray Community
The right service depends on where you are and what you are working on. That is what the conversation is for.
Tell me what you're working on, and we'll decide what makes sense... and whether I am the right person to help.
What people say
"Working with My Coach Ray has been THE single best investment in myself over my entire life of learning."
Kevin N.
"He has a way of thinking that makes you re-think the most important aspects of your life that we place on auto-pilot. His ability to reframe scenarios and ask sharp, pressing questions propels you into a calming sense of clarity."
Dr. Dean P.
"By letting go of the negative emotional garbage, I have the opportunity to decide what I desire and implement tools to bring me closer to my goals. There is not another personal growth experience out there that can create so much forward momentum and ongoing growth in every area of life."
Amy E.
"Coach Ray is the Real Deal. If you are seeking self-improvement in ANY area of life, you have found the place to get it going."
Terry B.
Let's talk about what you want to create.
Tell me what's going on, and I will get back to you.
Prefer to write directly? Ray@MyCoachRay.com
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